• Small Church Essentials

    ByKristin books
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    I’ve been restless in my small church, but I still believe it’s where my family and I belong.

    Yes, that creates tension in my heart and head sometimes. But it also positioned my husband and me to lead a new small group that’s been what our lives needed this past year. God has shown me (again) how He doesn’t waste anything. He uses our perspectives, restlessness, and ideas to grow our faith and bring Himself glory. (Read more about that.)

    Being active in a small church with about 100 people on a Sunday morning has taught me much, blessed me greatly, and prompted many questions. I’ve learned more about myself and my preferences. I’ve discovered how my gifts fit into God’s kingdom. I’ve pursued ideas because if I wanted a study or project to happen I had to lead it. People have shown up with meals after we adopted babies or as my son recovered from second-degree burns. A couple our parents’ age has poured into our family. We’ve befriended college students and other families.

    But I’ve been feeling stuck in my small church.

    So when I saw a post about the launch team for “Small Church Essentials: Field-Tested Principles for Leading a Healthy Congregation of under 250” on Facebook, I was intrigued. I’m not a pastor. I don’t work for my church. But I do care about the future of our small church (and churches in general) and wanted a fresh perspective as the wife of an elder and a small group leader.

    “A healthy small church on mission with God can and should be hearing from God through various voices in the congregation. If we truly believe in the priesthood of believers, what better place to practice it than in a healthy small church?”

    – Karl Vaters in “Small Church Essentials”

    I’m not the only one in this size of church. Vaters quotes information that says half of North America’s 320,000 churches are Protestant churches that have about 80 in their weekly attendance. One a church reaches 100 people, it’s larger than 60 percent of its peer churches; at 140 people, it’s 75 percent larger; and at 200, 85 percent. The numbers don’t matter but the sentiment does: Leading and being active in small churches is important because that’s the majority of what The Church is in America.

    “Equip the saints, reach the lost, and glorify God. If you and your church are doing that, it doesn’t matter what size it is. It’s not about big or small; it’s about big and small. While I believe small churches will play a more visible role in the future growth of the church, I don’t believe we will replace big churches or megachurches, nor should we. The body of Christ is better with all of us than without any of us.”

    – Karl Vaters in “Small Church Essentials”

    This book is definitely written directly to pastors, but I still benefited as someone invested and interested in seeing improvements in our church. It’s divided into four sections that are then broken down into smaller chapters that address everything from church philosophy, purpose, starting and stopping ministries, vision-casting, service, discipleship, leadership models, and planning. Personally, it helped me gain perspective on both the role of a small church and where I fit into that. 

    About the book

    Big churches get all the love. Articles, books, and conferences often feature leaders of large congregations. Yet big churches are a small part of the ecclesial landscape. In fact, more than 90 percent of churches have fewer than 200 people. That means small churches play a big part in what God is doing.

    “Small Church Essentials” is for leaders of these smaller congregations. It encourages them to steward their role well, debunks myths about small churches, and offers principles for leading a dynamic, healthy small church. It affirms small church leaders and shows them how to identify what they do well and how to do it even better.

    This 256-page paperback book is published by Moody Publishers (March 6, 2018).

    About the author

    Karl Vaters has been a small church pastor for 30 years, also authored “The Grasshopper Myth: Big Churches, Small Churches, and the Small Thinking that Divides Us,” and travels extensively to churches and conferences to speak about leading a small church well. You can follow him on Twitter and Facebook.

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    I received an advanced complimentary copy of this book as part of the launch team, but these thoughts on the book and small churches are my own.

  • When the past & the present collide

    ByKristin faith
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    Nineteen years ago as a college sophomore, I walked into the Murray Christian Fellowship house on the edge of campus. I had learned about MCF while compiling a list of campus ministries for the student newspaper. What the campus minister had said during a brief phone call intrigued me. I didn’t know anyone, so I dragged some friends with me because I wanted to go.

    Three years later, I graduated with a bachelor’s of science and walked away from that MCF house with a deeper understanding of my faith and some the dearest friends a girl could have.

    On a recent Sunday in August, the current student leaders from MCF fill a row of seats near us in church. I held the college memories in my heart as my 7-year-old boy still let me hold his hand in church that same morning. My almost-2-year-old girl was eager to go the nursery and my oldest, who is somehow already 10, sat on my other side. Even so, I remember so much of college like it was yesterday.

    God collided what He did long ago
    with what He’s doing now.

    {Tweet that.}

    We’ve introduced our kids to the MCF house recently because our small group painted the front porch and started to haul out trash from the leaking basement. We’ve gotten to know a couple of the current students and hope to spend more time with them. Meanwhile, we are still missing the former student who was my kids’ babysitter but understandably graduated, moved away, and got married in recent years.

    I’m grateful our church – which was started out of that same campus ministry more than three decades ago – is still in a relationship with the organization God used to teach me and love me when I was finding my way as a new believer. I sat there in the row of chairs Sunday morning with my kids while others prayed over MCF’s student leaders.

    I prayed silently in my head:

    Thank you, God, for prompting me through a newspaper assignment to walk the couple blocks from my dorm to the MCF house. Thank you for meeting me there that day, many days in the following three years, and even times since. I love how that ministry and our current church are intertwined and how nobody hesitated to join those students with prayer. Thank you for giving my family the opportunity to serve these kids as they serve you and their peers. Be with the students as they begin a new school year. Let them shine lights and love others for you, God. Let them hold onto the truth of what you’re doing now so they can remember your faithfulness later. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

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    I love living in a college town! I shared yesterday about welcoming college students to my hometown (and wanting to mother some boys I crossed paths with in Kroger). You can also read the letter I wrote last year to Murray State freshmen.