• Why I quit TimeHop

    Remembering is good, but I had to take a break from TimeHop.

    For 3,087 consecutive days, I opened and scrolled through TimeHop, often before I even got out of bed.

    I’d scroll through old photos, smile at forgotten memories, and text friends screenshots of moments we’d shared. I love creating side-by-side, then-and-now comparisons. I’m deeply grateful for where God has brought me, my marriage, and my family. I love seeing my now-grown kids with their baby faces and remembering friendships that have stretched across so many years.

    Remembering is a gift.

    But somewhere along the way, TimeHop also became a habit that quietly made me sad.

    Honestly, I’m not entirely sure why. Maybe it’s because it’s difficult to live contentedly in the present when looking backward becomes a daily priority.

    The past three years have been the hardest of my life. I keep hoping, and praying, that we’ve turned a corner. Maybe we have. Maybe we’re closer than I realize. But when you’re walking through a valley, it’s not always easy to tell.

    What I do know is this: I want to remember how I’ve seen God at work here. Those moments haven’t really been fair game for social media yet, but they’re the story the Author and Perfector of our faith is writing. I want to notice His faithfulness in today’s ordinary moments, not just remember how He worked yesterday.

    That’s much harder to do when I’m constantly flipping through pictures of what feel like the “good old days,” the days that seemed easier. The days before one friend moved away, before another quietly wrote me out of her life, before parenting felt less like fighting for my son’s actual life.

    Looking backward isn’t wrong. Scripture is full of reminders to remember what God has done. But remembering is meant to strengthen our faith for today, not pull our hearts away from today.

    So I quit the streak. But I’m not forgetting.

    I’m not saying I’ll never open TimeHop again. I probably will someday, because I genuinely love remembering. But that’s not what my heart needs right now.

    Today, I need to be fully present in the valley God has me walking through. I need to watch for His mercies this morning instead of reliving yesterday’s memories. I need to believe that one day, these difficult days may become reminders of His faithfulness too.

    *****

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  • Reading this year

    I love a book list, so I’m going to assume you do too. I’ve kept a running list of books I’ve read and where/how I got them. As much as I love a hardback book, I find myself reading more on my Kindle these days out of convenience. So far this year, I’ve read more romance (16 of the 36 total), and that is followed by thrillers (11). Non-fiction has been almost non-existent for me this year.

    Without further ado, here are the books of 2026, so far …

    Romance

    1. “Merry Little Letters” by Sarah Wright Reed — This book was a joy to read. I related to Maddie as I’ve been known to be too “grippy” sometimes and found freedom in letting go. The way Ben overcomes ADHD (aka the way his brain works) and the lies his dad has fed him encourages me with my real-life son, Ben. The way letter writing is therapeutic, the patience to grow flowers in Colorado hothouse, the chapter titles like Carol lyrics, and the holiday sparkles throughout are beautiful. “Merry Little Letters” is a perfect blend of Hallmark meets actual life. (Kindle Unlimited) 
    2. “Bluebird Gold” by Devney Perry – I really enjoyed Cosi and Ilsa in this book that is both mystery and romance. I liked the small-town Montana setting. But I didn’t like the use of the F word and a couple of open-door romance scenes, especially on Audible. I guess when I read a book, I mentally skipped over curse words, but hearing them made them harder to handle. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    3. “Falling into Place” by Allison Ashley – Another Kindle Unlimited find that hit the spot for me. I really liked the main characters, especially Brooks, and the family dynamic with Brooks’ sisters. This was a romance with plenty of character growth as they processed hard seasons from their past. I also am a sucker for reality TV and media references, which were key plot elements of this story. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    4. “How to Write a Love Story” by Catherine Walsh – I liked the writer & editor characters coming together to work on a much-anticipated book. They both realized real life influences fiction, even in the fantasy genre! I also liked the Irish setting for this story. (Book of the Month) 
    5. “First-Time Caller” by B.K. Borison — This book was fine. I really liked the radio setting of the meet cute, and I got Sleepless in Seattle vibes, which is never bad. But I don’t know why this was a Book of the Month Book of the Year (2025) Finalist. That’s what I kept thinking … until I got to the last three chapters and epilogue. They were definitely the best part. I also could have done without the sex, which seemed very much just thrown in. (Book of the Month) 
    6. “The Night We Met” by Abby Jimenez – This author is a master at crafting emotionally complicated characters who navigate realistic hardships while also offering clever, fun banter. I’ve loved most of her books, which seem to get better each time she publishes. This one has storylines involving grief, alcoholism, difficult family dynamics, and broken friendships, but also showcases how love has many different languages when it’s shared through so much more than just physical touch. (New release hardcover)
    7. “Change of Plans” by Sarah Dessen – I liked the post-graduation summer setting of this book and the character development that accompanied the unexpected plans and connections. One minor note: There were a few gender-neutral names that kept driving me nuts because I couldn’t remember if the minor characters were girls or boys. I’ve enjoyed several of this author’s books in the past and like her writing, even if she writes books geared toward young adults. (Kindle)
    8. “Our Perfect Storm” by Carley Fortune – This wasn’t my favorite book by her, but I did enjoy it. I certainly found myself rooting for George and Frankie. I wanted the storm title to carry through more of the book. I loved how the story includes flashbacks to the early decades of their friendship and how that complicates current feelings and possibilities. Also, there were lots of “Little Women” references, although I’m certain I didn’t catch them all. (Book of the Month) 
    9. “The Epicenter of Forever” by Mara Williams – A well-written story of grief turning into goodness really resonates with me because that’s something we all navigate regularly. I loved the earthquake analogy woven through this tale, which includes family secrets, surprises in a settled life, and decisions of grace that make room for redemption. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    10. “The Truth is in the Detours” by Mara Williams – Yes, that’s two in a row by the same author. I liked this one too! The characters were relatable, and the road trip plot worked well for their development and growth. I also enjoyed the faithful friendship that sustained so many different seasons despite their own personal journeys. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    11. “The Shippers” by Katherine Center – And I remembered why she’s my favorite! Her characters are funny, quirky, and real. The way she writes acknowledges life’s hardships but leaves plenty of room for hope and love. The title refers to both the cruise ship scene and the matchmaking that occurs both as part of The Plan and unexpectedly. I’d give this one all the stars! (Book of the Month) 
    12. “Never Over” by Clare Gilmore – If I find myself jotting down quotes from a fiction novel or thinking, “Oh, yes, that’s how I felt when …” then that’s five stars for me. I loved the songwriting and baseball details. The then-and-now timeline worked well for the relationship growing and breaking and growing again. Plus, the references to rom-com tropes were funny! And I appreciated the ode to sisterhood woven throughout. Overall, I’m left remembering how we truly affect people as we go through life — sometimes on purpose, sometimes accidentally, and sometimes completely by surprise. (Book of the Month)
    13. “The Four Engagement Rings of Sybil Rain” by Hannah Brown – This was a cute rom-com book with good symmetry of past and present, three different relationships, and one main character who was struggling to find her way. I liked the Hawaiian setting. Some of the book was silly, but overall I enjoyed this one. (Kindle)
    14. “You, With a View” by Jessica Joyce — I loved the banter between former high school nemeses now that they’re grown-ups figuring out what matters. I loved Noelle uncovering her grandma’s first love as she grieves her death. The storytelling from that is beautiful. And I love a road trip, especially one that symbolizes the journey the characters are on individually and together. I did not love the cursing or heavy intimate scenes. I read this one on our long travel day at the beginning of vacation. (Kindle)
    15. “Love Letters for Other People” by Shaylin Gandhi — I loved this story of first love, lots of life, and the second love that mirrors the first. The beginning was a little slow, but the second half of the book was really good. I could have done without all the F words. But I appreciated the new kid who loves words and his first friend & everything who loves numbers.  (Kindle Unlimited)
    16. “The Other Side of Starting Over” by Mara Williams – I’m a sucker for a book that handles grief, both the kind from the death of a loved one and unmet expectations, well. I loved the main character, sympathized with how secrets complicate grief, and appreciated the fact that hope came anyway. This one comes out in November, but I got to enjoy it early, thanks to NetGalley. (Will be available on Kindle Unlimited)

    Thriller

    1. “Happy Wife” by Meredith Lavender and Kendell Shores – This was an intriguing thriller where the wife was the suspect in her husband’s disappearance. But wasn’t she the happy wife? I thought I had the guilty party figured out, but the ending surprised me somewhat. I was a good audiobook listen. (Audible)
    2. “The First Gentleman” by Bill Clinton and James Patterson – I love a legal and political thriller. Add in a love story and author life, and this was a good choice for me! It’s been a long time since I read a James Patterson book, but this author combo made for a fast-paced, intriguing mystery complete with White House drama and a murder trial. (Audible)
    3. “My Husband Next Door” by K.L. Slater – I liked this domestic thriller in which many characters could have been guilty. I didn’t figure out the twist, which makes for a fun ending. I also really liked the British narrator on Audible. (Kindle Unlimited)
    4. “What She Saw” by Mary Burton – Thrillers are working for me right now, and I liked this one with a dual timeline and a writer trying to weave together details of a past crime. The story got a little slow and dragged on too much, but there were some good reveals and character development. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    5. “It’s Not Her” by Mary Kubica – This was an intense thriller where everybody seemed like they may have been guilty. Then, when it all gets sorted out at the end, there’s a twist that wasn’t even on my radar! I liked the vacation lake setting, how the story wasn’t bogged down with unnecessary details, and the page-turner tempo. (Book of the Month audio)
    6. “I Came Back for You” by Kate White – This was a fine thriller. I thought the dynamic between the ex-spouses was odd and could have been portrayed better. I also just don’t care for surprise same-sex relationships later in a book. But the mystery was intriguing and kept me turning the page. (Amazon Prime First Reads) 
    7. “Her First Mistake” (Noelle Marshall #1) by Kendra Elliot – Once again, I happened upon this one on Kindle Unlimited and really enjoyed the fast-paced thriller. I liked the main character, which is good because there’s a second one in the series! (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    8. “No One Knew” (Noelle Marshall #2) by Kendra Elliot – I realize reading (and listening to) the second in the series on the heels of the first surprises no one! This had some romance, a backstory intertwined with the present, family drama, and domestic terrorism. Plus, I really enjoy Noelle Marshall herself.  (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    9. “This Story Might Save Your Life” by Tiffany Crum – I loved this romantic thriller or thrilling romance. Benny and Joy were the kind of people I wanted to be friends with, which must have been how others felt, because their survival podcast quickly exploded and literally changed their lives. They know their history as best friends, but now they’re unsure who to trust and who is truly helping them. Plot lines include missing people, odd neighbors, grief, friendship, and broken relationships. It’s all revealed in a non-linear storyline that really worked well for this one. I was so into this on Audible that when I wasn’t able to listen, I had to get it on my Kindle so I could be consuming this story at all times possible. (Audible/Kindle)
    10. “As Far As She Knew” by Diana Awad – I’m always drawn to family dramas, and this one delivered many twists. I liked the Muslim culture intertwined throughout the story, which was filled with lies and uncertainties, eventually unwoven to reveal the truth. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    11. “Unknown Caller” by Gillian McAllister – What a thriller! When the kidnapping storyline was somewhat resolved, I realized I wasn’t even quite halfway through! So much still happened, and I was totally caught off guard by a big twist toward the end. Looking back, there were hints to it, but I didn’t catch it. (Kindle)

    Contemporary Fiction

    1. “Good Days Bad Days” by Emily Bleeker – We all have them, right? Good days. Bad days. This book does an excellent job of telling about Charlie coming to terms with her childhood, realizing her renovation TV show echoes some themes from her actual life, and navigating her relationships with her aging parents. Charlie’s story is told with a dual timeline of her present and her parents’ past. I love when a fiction book tackles hard, real-life topics, and this one does that beautifully. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    2. “In Another Life” by Imogen Clark – I found this one on Kindle Unlimited. Y’all know I like a family drama with some mystery, and that’s just what this was. The dual timeline worked well for the mysterious unfolding of why two sisters weren’t in one another’s lives. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    3. “Life as Planned” by Amanda Prowse – This was a character development heavy book that took me a bit to get into, but once I did, I was invested in the twin girl main characters. When they’re 10 years old, they make some decisions that truly alter the course of their entire lives. The chapters are each decade of their lives, and the way their stories are woven together from the past to the present is beautiful. The whole story made me think about how small decisions do change the trajectory of life, and secrets always come to light. (Kindle Unlimited/Audible)
    4. “Good Joy, Bad Joy” by Mikki Brammer – This cover is beautiful and fits the character-driven story well. As Joy navigates grief and life changes, she wonders if following all the rules really was the best way to live. I tend to like novels with more action, but I enjoyed this one. (Book of the Month)
    5. “The Unraveling of Julia” by Lisa Scottoline – I liked this one! I’ve read many Lisa Scottoline books, and this was different but included her trademark thriller twists. I liked that it was more than “just a thriller” with plots involving history, astrology, family drama, adoption, and some romance. I wouldn’t normally care for the astrology & ghost references, but it fit with the Italian Renaissance details. (Kindle Unlimited)

    Memoirs

    1. “Twice Delivered: A Story of Two Families, Two Worlds, and One Redeeming Love” by Isaac Melber – This book is the story of a boy orphaned in Ethiopia and adopted by a Kentucky family, who came to faith. He presents adoption as a beautiful picture of Jesus’ redeeming love. (Paperback)

    Bible Studies

    1. “Exalting Jesus in Joshua” (Christ-Centered Exposition Commentary) – This is one of my two favorite commentaries for whatever I’m studying. 
    2. Joshua by Precept Ministries – This is what my regular Bible study group did in the spring semester. I wasn’t sure how practical a history book about allotments of land would be, but, of course, God faithfully encouraged me in ways I didn’t expect. 
    3. “Revelation: Eternal King, Everlasting Kingdom” by Jen Wilkin – I was hesitant to study Revelation, especially in the summer, but this study was so insightful into God’s faithfulness and promises. I watched the videos and discussed the study with my friends. 

    *****


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  • Alaska, finally!

    We finally made it. I say that because we originally booked an Alaskan cruise in 2020. We all know how that went, or, rather, didn’t go. We rebooked in 2021, but negative COVID tests were still required to fly into Canada and board cruise ships … and one of my kids tested positive for COVID the night before we were scheduled to leave. So we waited a few days then went to Wisconsin Dells instead. 

    Then we planned other cruises with friends, celebrated our high school graduate, went on mission trips … and Alaska had to wait. 

    But now here we are, finally. 

    We love to travel with our moms and family friends, but for reasons I’m not even entirely sure about, the trip felt like it was meant for the five of us. That doesn’t mean it was all roses and everyone got along all the time, but I’m so glad we did this trip in this season of life. 

    This trip was a big one with 13 nights away from home in three hotels each for a night, seven nights on the Ovation of the Seas, two nights in a cabin, and the last night on an airplane. 

    We packed seven suitcases for five of us, and I wish we’d packed less. But I did three loads of laundry after we got off the cruise ship. 

    Ketchikan

    We gained another hour to get on Alaskan time, and then went on our first excursion. We canoed around Harriett Hunt Lake in the Tongass National Forest. After a nature walk, we had yummy local snacks such as clam chowder, berry jam, salmon dip, and hot chocolate. 

    Greg, Cate, and Ben got back on the ship for lunch while Rachel and I shared a crab roll from a local food truck. Then we snacked and shopped at Ward’s Cove, which had a great store for cruise tourists. 

    We ended the port stop with the Great Alaskan Lumberjack Show. Showcasing a competition between a couple of two-man teams, it was entertaining and interactive.

    Icy Strait Point

    This port is near Hoonah, and it’s owned and developed by the native people. It’s authentic and takes into account the salmon cannery history. We rode a new gondola to the top of the mountain. It was a cloudy day, so views were limited, but it was still pretty. We also went on a walk to a pond and meadow. On the way down, the boss of the gondola hitched a ride with us, and we got to chat with him, which was fun. 

    After lunch and exploring, we boarded a whale-watching boat and saw 18 humpback whales bubble feeding and 4 others breaching. Several in my crew consider the whale watching their favorite excursion. 

    We beat the crowds and took the shuttle into downtown in the morning. We walked to the Sitka National Historical Park, which took us by a marina and beautiful, rocky shoreline. Then we shopped and snacked downtown before heading back to the cruise port. 

    Our excursion took us to the Fortress of the Bear, which is a non-profit facility that cares for orphaned bears. We got to see Alaskan coastal brown bears and black bears. 

    This was maybe my favorite day, thanks to siblings’ moods toward each other, the weather, and the whole experience. Cate and I decided we could vacation here for a few days, and we talked about “The Proposal,” even though the majority of the movie wasn’t actually filmed there. But nobody there has tiny dogs because eagles are a real threat to them! 

    Skagway

    Further north, this port looked different than the others with more dramatic mountains and views. 

    We had a tour that took us to learn about and meet sled dogs and through the White Pass to Fraser, British Columbia, Canada. We rode up on a bus and down on a scenic train. So beautiful! 

    We had lunch at the Salty Siren near the port. I continued my streak of seafood at least once every day! 

    Seward to Anchorage

    We got off the ship in Seward, which is a couple of hours from Anchorage. We took a tour that was also our transport. Along the way we stopped at so many great places, including Lowell Point, Exit Glacier overlook, The Inn at Whittier for lunch, Portage Valley, Byron Glacier trailhead, and Alaskan Wildlife Conservation Center.

    Our guide was excellent, and this was a great way to learn the area and get to where we needed to go. We stayed at the Hyatt Place in Anchorage that night and had dinner The Bear Paw Bar & Grill because it was in walking distance, but it also turned out to be delicious! 

    I did three loads of laundry at the hotel, and Rachel swam. Honestly, I wish we’d packed less. We took a total of seven suitcases, but I think we could have done five with no issues if I trusted the laundry situation!

    Palmer

    Just outside of Anchorage, the boys fished on Knik River from the late morning into the afternoon, so the girls and I had our own fun. We went to the Reindeer Farm, lunched at Turkey Red, and got dessert at Vagabond Blues. 

    Then we drove up toward Hatcher Pass before picking up the boys and heading to Denali National Park. We stayed just outside of the park in a cute cabin at Denali Grizzly Bear Resort for two nights. 

    Denali National Park 

    Our first day at Denali National Park was really fun! It’s so remote that it’s not like Yellowstone or even Glacier with all the people in the summer. Plus we had beautiful weather. 

    We visited the working dogs that rangers use to patrol the park, especially in the winter when so many parts aren’t accessible by roads. Then we did a tour of the background just outside of the park with Denali ATV Adventures. We had a six-seater ATV for just our crew and then two guides in their own ATV and another couple in theirs. It was basically like a private tour, and so fun! 

    After the ATV tour, we happened upon a golf course down the road. Ben really wanted to say he played golf in Alaska, so he and Greg squeezed in some holes at Black Diamond Golf Course. While the girls and I were having a snack on the porch there, a worker asked us if we’d been to the petting zoo. My immediate response was, “Right here?” Yep. Right behind the restaurant and clubhouse was a petting zoo with goats, miniature horses and cows, rabbits, and sheep. So random, but Rachel especially had the best time! 

    That night we went to the Cabin Nite Dinner Theatre at Denali Park Village, which was across the street from our cabin. The ribs, salmon, family-style sides, and berry cobbler were so good! And the show about Denali and what brought people there was funny and entertaining. 

    The next day in Denali, we took a bus 43 miles into the park, which is farther than possible in a private vehicle. I wish we had more time to explore, especially once we got to East Fork riverbed, but we had a plane to catch. 

    Sort of. We stopped at Wasilla on our way back to Anchorage to watch the World Cup game at Tailgaters Sports Bar & Grill. We flew out at 10:45 pm Alaska time and remain confused about what day it is!

    Logistic Recommendations

    • I’ve probably told you before, but if you’re flying out of the Nashville airport early in the morning, stay at the hotel there. Yes, it’ll feel like a splurge, but it’s worth it. 
    • A cruise is the way to see Alaska’s coast because those towns are beautiful but isolated. But then you should definitely spend a few extra days in the interior exploring other areas. I used a travel agent for the cruise booking, but then I booked our cruise excursions and extra land-based days myself. I enjoy planning trips, though. If you don’t, my girls at Kingdom Seekers Travel can help you with all the things. 
    • Get a credit card with good travel perks. I recommend both the Southwest credit card if you fly with even a little frequency and the Capital One Venture card. These help cut the costs in various ways! 
    • I also like to book hotels and rental cars through Expedia because that builds OneKey Cash (aka discounts) and allows me to get cash back through Rakuten. 

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    Even though they don’t do the beauty justice, I took a bunch of pictures! You can see most of them on Facebook or Instagram.

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