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Giving grace in Section 103

March 7, 2018 by Kristin 13 Comments

Hello, March Madness!

In the winter, we plan our social life around the Murray State basketball schedule. We meet friends for dinner before games. We have friends who travel with us – often in a bus now that we’ve outgrown my minivan – to a few away games.

I know sports aren’t everyone’s form of entertainment, but Greg and I both would choose a college basketball game over an art museum, a college football game before a musical at the theater, and a Major League Baseball game instead of any sort of dance recital. We both grew up watching sports, so it naturally became something we did together.

We have season tickets to Murray State basketball and football games. We try to go to a St. Louis Cardinals baseball most seasons. We also like University of Kentucky football and basketball, and occasionally make our way to Lexington for a game.

Then we had kids – and we kept doing it.

But the Racers are our favorites.

I have pictures of Cate and Ben sleeping at MSU basketball games. Like her siblings, Rachel can almost spell R-A-C-E-R-S! She recognizes both the mascot and the logo around town. Cate is old enough to have memories of players she’s loved watching. Ben is starting to ask more questions about the rules and strategies and has a piqued interest in playing sports.

With sports come stories of perseverance, achievement, and sometimes loss. In a culture where everyone thinks they deserve a participation trophy, it’s good for the kids to see the world keeps turning after your team loses. And, of course, it’s fun to celebrate with teams we’ve come to know from our seats.

It’s been exciting few weeks for Racer fans.

The regular season ended on a high note the last weekend of February when Murray State went into Austin Peay and secured its place at the top of the standings. But the actual game was interrupted when a tornado outside caused us to have to leave our seats and seek shelter in a hallway. A piece of metal also poked through the roof, causing a leak on the court. After a three-hour delay, the teams finished the last six minutes of the game. What an adventure!

That night we hung out with friends and fellow fans while we waited. Greg ordered pizza. The kids ate Skittles and drank Sprite hours past their usual bedtimes. We high-fived sweaty players after the game was over. We made memories.

Just this past weekend, we were in Evansville, Indiana, for the Ohio Valley Conference Tournament. Our beloved Murray State Racers were the No. 1 seed and brought a lot of momentum into the tournament. They won the championship Saturday night and earned the first bid to the NCAA Tournament.

Of course, the weekend wasn’t just about basketball. We also ate at some good restaurants, went to a zoo, and made memories with friends.

Watching basketball has helped me be a yes mom
and provided a backdrop for making memories.

{Tweet that.}

The past few weeks have reminded me how being a yes mom is fun. Naturally, I’m a rule follower who wants everyone to follow my rules, but I’ve had opportunities to give the kids treats and grace. It’s fun to throw the routine out of the window. Those things don’t come naturally to me, so being a sports fan has helped me keep perspective on life.

March Madness is the best in our sports-loving world. And now we get to root for our favorite team to be the Cinderella of The Big Dance. Pass the Skittles.

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  1. Debbie Williams says

    March 7, 2018 at 6:40 am

    Kristin love how you are making memories. I have so many with our kids growing up, and now can’t wait to do it with the grands.

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:55 pm

      Thanks for being here with encouragement, Debbie!

      Reply
  2. Joanne Viola says

    March 7, 2018 at 6:47 am

    Kristin, I loved this post as our son is a college asst. girls basketball coach. I love how you are making memories for your family, and in the meantime, showing us all how to do so as well. It’s why I show up on your “porch” every week! xo

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:54 pm

      I’m always grateful for your faithfulness to show up. Where does your son coach?

      Reply
  3. Sue says

    March 7, 2018 at 6:52 am

    I love this. I am a coach of a college Speech and Debate team and my daughter (9 yo now) has traveled to tournaments with us since she was a baby. She doesn’t get enough sleep, eat very healthy food and she sometimes misses out on “typical” weekend activities, but there are so many memories and lessons learned and confidences gained through these experiences. Thanks for sharing and reminding me how much these experiences mean.

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:53 pm

      Y’all are building good memories through those adventures, even when they aren’t perfect, maybe especially when they aren’t perfect. I’m glad to see you here, Sue!

      Reply
  4. Michele Morin says

    March 7, 2018 at 7:33 am

    Kristin, I love that you’ve found this terrific way to embed FUN into your family life. Sometimes we’re just so serious.

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:52 pm

      Amen to that!

      Reply
  5. Barbara H. says

    March 7, 2018 at 7:59 am

    I know what you mean – I like my routines and am uncomfortable if they are disrupted for long, but every now and then it’s refreshing when things are changed up a bit.

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:52 pm

      I’m to the point I look forward to these breaks in our routine, which is a total God thing. 🙂

      Reply
  6. SUSAN SHIPE says

    March 7, 2018 at 8:02 am

    Isn’t it grand to be able to say YES to our kids? Find the good things and do them. Catch them doing good. GO RACERS! (I am not a fan of any sport actually!) My hubs? H O C K E Y. His ♥

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    • Kristin says

      March 7, 2018 at 3:51 pm

      You encourage me so much. xo

      Reply

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The main characters in my stories are my entrepreneur husband, our high school girl who never forgets, our middle school boy who has no fear, and our joy-filled first-grade girl. As we live out our stories, we seek God as the author of them all.

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