I actually got to enjoy my porch for a couple afternoons this month. That’s got me all ready for spring. February didn’t involve the snow I expected, thankfully, but there was a lot of rain. Even so, February was lovely in many ways.
Highlights
Greg and I celebrated meeting each other and going on our first day TWENTY (!!!) years ago! Yeah, I have no idea how that’s possible either. But you can read about how we met and then about how we stayed up all night talking a week later. (You can also see a side-by-side picture comparison of us then and now.)
We celebrated with a dinner out the night before Valentine’s Day because that’s when the babysitter was available. After dinner we went to Walmart because I needed to get a few things and so did Greg, who let me pick out my own flowers instead of going back to the store without me the next day. This is real life, and I love ours. He did get me a lovely canvas to hang that has our family’s birthdates and our wedding date. I’m still deciding where to hang it. (See the flowers and the canvas.)
Pardon this highlight if you aren’t a mom, but my toddler only wears diapers when she sleeps! Perhaps I can declare her potty trained. I mean, she still has accidents sometimes, but she usually tells me when she needs to go and she’s not quite two-and-a-half years old. I’ll take it!
Oh, and she’s learning to swim. (And it’s pretty much the cutest thing ever.)
We road tripped to our favorite away Murray State game in Clarksville, Tennessee, which included stops at Target, Michael’s, and Books-A-Million before we ate at one of my favorite restaurants called Blackhorse Brewery. We had no idea the evening was going to involve tornado warnings both at home and the arena, a three-hour delay with six minutes to go in the game after a piece of metal poked through the arena roof and prompted a leak on the court, and an exciting win to clinch the regular-season conference championship. But all of those things really happened. The kids stayed up later than they ever have before, and we all have a fun story to tell.
Also, for the second time ever, I was on a podcast! My new friend Melissa Corkum hosted me on The Uncorked Podcast, where we talked about adoption, motherhood, writing, Enneagram, fostering community, volunteering, and general living. (You can listen here.)
Favorite things
- Enneagram – Maybe this isn’t a thing, but it’s becoming my favorite. My college friend Andrea Kleid shared about it earlier this month here. I’m a 1 with a 2 wing, and it’s been fascinating to learn more about my natural motivations, the traps when I’m stressed, and how I respond to goodness.
- John Crist – This guy makes me laugh. He was recently on Annie Downs’ podcast, and now I follow him (closely, perhaps) on Instagram.
- Oils for cold sores – I like oils for some things, but I also take Tylenol when I have a headache and antibiotics when I have an ear infection. Even so, I texted a friend last week out of desperation: What oils can I use for this annoying, painful cold sore on my tongue? She told me to mix together equal parts Melaleuca, On Guard, and Frankincense. I did. And, y’all, it totally worked. My cold sore improved that day and was gone the next. It didn’t taste delicious, but it was totally worth it.
- My boy dressed up at George Washington – The kids went to school on Presidents’ Day because they made up a snow day. Ben’s second-grade class dressed up as presidents and shared facts about them. Thanks to Amazon for the costume! Not having to piece together an outfit was worth buying the outfit and wig. And did you know our first president had dentures made out of hippo tusks and human teeth?
From the bookshelf
Two months into the new year, and I’ve been reading memoirs and fiction. It’s been refreshing to have a break from all the self-help Christian living books that weren’t helping the lofty expectations I already burden myself with. I know there are good non-fiction books out there I’ll return to, but the break has been nice. (I keep a running list of books I’ve loved on Amazon, if you want some more recommendations.)
I did start a non-fiction book because it’s about a subject very close to my heart and one I haven’t read much about.
- “Why I Hate Green Beans: And Other Confessions about Relationships, Reality TV, and How We See Ourselves” by Lincee Ray – When I listen to Lincee Ray’s “I Hate Green Beans” podcast, I laugh out loud. Literally. And, yes, I’ll go ahead and confess to watching “The Bachelor” too. But I knew Lincee’s story went beyond affection for Chris Harrison and predictions for who would get the final rose. I’m glad she shared her story – one that’s told with her trademark humor as she learns to embrace the real life she never expected. And, yes, you’ll enjoy the book even if you like green beans like me. (You can read my full review here.)
- “The Fever” by Megan Abbott – I didn’t love this book. I didn’t hate it either. The story line was intriguing, which is why I didn’t quit it. I want to say it was dark, but that may not be the right word. It was mysterious in a way that made me want to keep my oldest 10 years old forever. I previously read “You Will Know Me” by this same author and liked it more, even though it also was dark.
- “The Nightingale” by Kristin Hannah – I’m late to this party, but I finally read this book I’ve hand on my Kindle for quite some time. I’ve loved other Kristin Hannah books, and especially loved this one.
- “A Place to Land: A Story of Longing and Belonging” by Kate Motaung – As part of the launch team, I got an early PDF copy of this book and enjoyed it. I had planned to read just a little but couldn’t stop and finished it in one weekend. Kate tells her story of growing up and discovering with parallels to how she found the truth of the home Jesus promises us. It officially releases April 2.
- “Small Church Essentials: Field-Tested Principles for Leading a Healthy Congregation of Under 250” by Karl Vaters – Most of the people in the launch team are pastors of small churches, but I’ve benefitted from the information because Greg is an elder at our small church and we lead a small group. I’m looking forward to sharing more about the book and my small church experience with you.
On the screen
The big question here is why did nobody tell me I could download Amazon Prime shows to my Kindle so when we’re all sitting in the small room at the orthodontist while Cate is getting braces my other two can still watch a show? Okay, I’ll forgive y’all now that I know. Also, related, my toddler now thinks Bubble Guppies live on my Kindle.
I typically like TV shows more than movies, but I have a movie to tell you about: “The Big Sick.” I loved it so much. Warning: There is some language, but the story had romantic comedy elements I loved mixed in with the drama too. The lead guy is playing himself in the movie, so that’s fun too. It’s an Amazon original, so thank you, again, Prime. (Did you know you can try Amazon Prime FREE for 30 days?)
And, yes, I already confessed to watching “The Bachelor,” and that most certainly happened this month. In reality TV news, Greg and I both are excited for a new “Survivor” season starting tonight.
If you were on my porch on one of these sunshiny afternoons, what would you tell me about your February? {Tweet that.}
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Kristin, It sounds like you’ve had a wonderfully full month! I love that spring is making early appearances (here in New England too) and I find myself eager earlier than normal. February can close out and March can enter like a lamb as far as I’m concerned!
I’ve heard about The Big Sick before, but I worried it was too “indie” for my taste. Your recommendation sounds good though so I’ll have to check it out!
I think I’m always eager for spring. 🙂 If you end up watching The Big Sick, let me know what you think! Thanks for being here, Becky!
I always enjoy monthly wrap-ups. We are looking forward to the start of Survivor here as well 🙂 Enjoy!
Thanks, Joanne!
What a cute photo of your kids and the daffodils! The flowers have just begun opening this week here. I love your monthly recap, Kristin! Maybe I’ll start doing that in my newsletter. Thanks for the inspiration today!
Glad you could be inspired here, Sarah! Those flowers will do that to a person. 🙂 Yes, they’ve just started blooming here too, and I love them so!
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor’s daffodils . . . (gotta say this a few times to make it stick)
HUGE congratulations on the potty training victory. It’s been ages for me, but I don’t think I’ll ever forget how wonderful that kind of progress feels. My grandson is inching toward victory in that area, but wow, it’s a slow slog.
I am also ready for a break from self-help books, so I’ve got a memoir and a fiction book in my pile. Very excited!!
Thanks for this good update! Blessings to you as we cross the March threshold!
Can spring be far away??
The daffodils just started blooming this week and I love them so! They’re just wonderful bursts of color after all the dullness of winter. Enjoy those memoir and fiction books. The break from non-fiction has been so good for my soul. Spring is coming! Thanks for being here, Michele!
Sounds like both a full and a lovely month! Happy first-date anniversary. 🙂 Our daffodils are coming up, too – so welcome after the barrenness of winter.
Yes, that color and beauty are so welcome here too! I’m glad you’re here, Barbara!
What a month! I finally got my 1st January reflections post up today and linked it up. Trying to work on February. HA!
Twenty years. Congratulations. We are celebrating 50 years this year and will celebrate our 49th anniversary this year. We blink and think how can this be? It goes so very fast.
Love Spring too. I would love it more if the storms didn’t come like this evening.
I’m looking forward to reading your post! I could do without the storms and allergies, too, but I still love the weather and new life. Thanks for being here, Debbie!
I love catching up with y’all! xo
Thank you for being here, my friend! xo
I loved your update! Well done on the potty training! All the books you share sound great too. I have really enjoyed A Place To Land. I wasn’t quite as quick as you, but I wasn’t too far behind in finishing it!
I didn’t plan on being so quick with it, but I just kept reading one weekend when we didn’t have many plans. 🙂 Thanks for being here, Lesley!
I loved The Big Sick too. 🙂 We laughed quite a bit in it!
It had been awhile since I’d seen a movie I really enjoyed. Glad you’re here, Lisa!
Loved reading your updates! My son has to do a historical thing tomorrow as well, and he sported a wig recently too — of the powdered kind haha.
I am loving Kate’s book as well. Heading to check out your old pictures. I love looking at photos!
Your kiddos are too cute. xoxoxo
We have used gray hairspray paint for another project last year when Ben had to dress up like a 100-year-old man! So there are options! 🙂 Thanks for being here, Meg!
This is so fun Kristin! I love getting these tiny glimpses into your “real” life!
Potty training- ugh. The worst. Congrats on the achievement! Woohoo!
Glad to be visiting your porch today!
Thanks for hanging out on my porch, Rachel!