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Makenzie Shewcraft: How God Surprises

November 1, 2017 by Kristin 20 Comments

In honor of National Adoption Awareness Month, I wanted to share stories from other adoptive families. Having these other adoptive moms share pieces of what God has done in their families through adoption is one of my favorite parts of my book, “Peace in the Process: How Adoption Built My Faith & My Family,” so I thought I’d let you have a peek into the community of adoptive mommas God has built in my life.

We’ll start with Makenzie Shewcraft. She is wife to Brett, mommy to Gracen, and a wedding photographer in western Kentucky. And she’s my real-life friend who took the gorgeous cover photo for my book.

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After several years of infertility, we set out on our adoption journey. We had always planned to adopt internationally later down the road, but after a little bit of research, we began looking into domestic adoption through an agency. I wasn’t sold on the idea of an open adoption in the beginning, but our agency really encouraged it.

We began to pray about it and agreed to the possibility of openness with a birth mother. Somewhere along the way, my heart shifted. My prayers began to change from just begging for a baby to asking God to bring a birth mother into our lives.

Fast forward to a year later and we found out we had been chosen by Kathleen, a birth mother due with a baby girl in two months. She didn’t want to meet us at the time, so we wrote her a letter and sent it through the agency. A few weeks later, our social worker called to say Kathleen was ready to meet with us in person.

At this point, it was 29 days before her induction date. That meeting went better than we could have ever imagined! We talked, laughed, and cried together, and we learned that Kathleen was someone who makes you feel like you’ve known her for years. She even looked down at her belly and said, “She is yours … I’m just carrying her for you.” From there, God gave us an undeniable peace the baby girl she was carrying was our daughter and Kathleen wouldn’t change her mind about her adoption plan.

I prayed for Kathleen every day between the meeting and the day our daughter Gracen was born. I couldn’t begin to imagine the emotions she was experiencing. When we arrived at the hospital, Gracen had just been born. Because of Kathleen’s requests, we were planning to meet Gracen by ourselves but the pregnancy counselor met us and said she was in the room with Kathleen. It wasn’t what we expected and we were a little nervous to be introduced to our daughter in front of her, but we walked in and she greeted us with a big “Hey!” and a smile. We ended up spending three hours in the room with Kathleen, holding Gracen in our arms. We talked about families, Kathleen’s pregnancy, our hopes and dreams for Gracen, and what her room looked like at home. It was nothing like we planned and imagined, but it’s time I would never change.

Even though Kathleen didn’t want much contact with us after birth, our relationship began to grow. We began to email, which led to Facebook messaging, which eventually led to texting. We have only seen her once, right after Gracen’s second birthday, but we keep in touch regularly. Although we talk about Gracen often, we also just chat about life, from jobs to family and everything in between. She is a dear friend in our lives.

We prayed for them long before we met them
and God exceeded our expectations.

{Tweet that.}

Our adoption journey looked nothing like I thought it would. It was a pretty smooth process, which was a big blessing, but the daughter we brought home and the birth mother and friend we gained are two of the greatest people in our lives.

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I’m also honored to share a piece of our story at Kayse Pratt’s Intentional Moms blog today. Join me there to read about why holding my babies in church has always seemed holy to me.

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  1. SUSAN SHIPE says

    November 1, 2017 at 6:08 am

    What a beautiful story of adoption. Kristin, hope you girls are feeling better. xo

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:18 pm

      We are feeling better, thankfully! Glad to have you here, as always, Susan!

      Reply
  2. Patricia Krank says

    November 1, 2017 at 6:13 am

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful story Kristin. Blessings 😉 Patti

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    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:18 pm

      Thank you for being here, Patti!

      Reply
  3. Michele Morin says

    November 1, 2017 at 7:29 am

    What a great idea to share the stories of others!
    Our God is great!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:17 pm

      Thanks, Michele!

      Reply
  4. Candace Playforth says

    November 1, 2017 at 7:56 am

    It’s always great to meet another Kentucky girl :)! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. Your daughter is so precious and what a special gift to have this relationship with her birth mother as well. Many blessings to you and your family!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:17 pm

      Thanks for being here with encouragement, Candace!

      Reply
  5. Debbie Putman says

    November 1, 2017 at 10:15 am

    Thank you, Kristin and Makenzie, for this beautiful story.

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    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:17 pm

      Thanks for being here, Debbie!

      Reply
  6. Barbara H. says

    November 1, 2017 at 10:42 am

    What a beautiful story! We were on the other end of adoption, when a sister placed her baby. It was hard, but they have kept in touch over the years and and maintained a good relationship, and that helps so much.

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    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:16 pm

      Oh, that’s interesting and such a sacrifice for everyone involved on that side. Thanks for sharing, Barbara!

      Reply
  7. bluecottonmemory says

    November 1, 2017 at 12:40 pm

    God’s plans for our lives don’t always work according to our plans and ideas – but, boy! Does he know how to give us our heart’s desires!!! Thank you for sharing your story – and the journey to God’s answer to your prayer.

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    • Kristin says

      November 2, 2017 at 12:50 pm

      Yes, all of that is so true! Thanks for being here!

      Reply
  8. Meghan says

    November 1, 2017 at 1:51 pm

    Wow I am in tears. This is awesome! Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.

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    • Kristin says

      November 1, 2017 at 4:16 pm

      Beautiful, isn’t it? Stay tuned for the other (also lovely!) stories coming the rest of this month! 🙂

      Reply
  9. Lisa notes says

    November 2, 2017 at 11:57 am

    What a beautiful adoption story. Thanks for sharing this one. My friend’s adopted daughter (22 years old) has recently reunited with her birth mother and birth father. It’s been so encouraging to hear how well it’s turned out!

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    • Kristin says

      November 2, 2017 at 12:49 pm

      Oh, I love hearing about stories like that! Adoption relationships can be hard to navigate, so I’m always glad to hear the good stories!

      Reply

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