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Three Word Wednesday :: Inside-Out Transformation

May 13, 2015 by Kristin Leave a Comment

On Monday afternoon, I already knew my week wasn’t going to look anything like I expected. My daughter had strep throat, my mother-in-law was on call to pick up Ben from school if we didn’t get out of the pediatrician’s office in time (which we didn’t), one appointment was postponed 10 days, another appointment was rescheduled from the previous week, neither of my first two childcare options were available to help me during a meeting later in the week, my own head and throat were feeling the effects a normal Kentucky spring, my husband had an unusually busy week …

I’m sure you understand.

We have all have Mondays like that. And sometimes Wednesdays too. Really, it doesn’t matter what day it is.

There are chores and kids and families and jobs and projects and deadlines and field trips and birthday parties and appointments and fevers and sports and thunderstorms and whatever else fills our days.

Sometimes I find myself wanting information on the whens and wheres and hows and whys of life. So many times I start out the week thinking my calendar is offering an accurate picture of life. It never does. Real life doesn’t fit into tidy boxes and our pre-scheduled time. {Tweet that.}

On Monday, my phone was dinging with texts between phone calls and I was scribbling new things on my calendar. And then I remember what really matters: God wants to transform me. It’s an ongoing, everyday process. And it doesn’t always means the Creator of time lets me in on the information and plans I want.

Transformation is greater than information. {Tweet that.}

I love thinking about how God is the perfecter of our faith. We can’t be perfected – as in the maturing process – without submitting ourselves to God. Although that’s indeed such a relief for those of us who want to keep trying to be better and do more, it’s still hard. It still requires approaching the throne of grace over and over and over and over again.

Especially on Mondays that offer surprises for the week. Especially on Wednesdays that have us weary. Especially on the weekends when we embrace rest.

“Who we are in our identity has been made perfect by Jesus once and for all. But our behavior is in the process of being perfected in him day by day.”

{Holley Gerth in “You’re Loved No Matter What”}

And that’s the transformation that matters, the one that changes us from the inside out.

Romans 12:1-2 is about not being conformed to this world. I especially love it from The Message:

“So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life — your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life — and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.”

In other words, focus on God and he’ll perfect you — perfect as the verb, not the adjective.

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  1. Karen Brown says

    May 13, 2015 at 12:57 pm

    Kristen- This is so me. I want nice and tidy. I want to know and plan. But God uses the messy and unknowing times to transform me. You shared so beautifully, as always, friend. Thanks for using your gift to encourage others. This post blessed me- now, I'm gonna go read it again. And maybe again… xoxo

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  2. Alecia Simersky says

    May 13, 2015 at 1:06 pm

    I'm so sorry Kate has strep! And did I see that you may have it too? Prayers for all to be well quickly! After having kids I had to make peace with the fact that my days and weeks were no longer going to look the way I thought they would. Looking back now I see what a refining process those days were, still are! I do love that version of one of my favorite verses.

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  3. Beth says

    May 13, 2015 at 2:21 pm

    This is just so good, Kristin. And I love how He never done with growing and transforming us to be more like His son. Hope everyone gets healthy soon. Love you. xoxo

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  4. Katie Reid says

    May 13, 2015 at 2:50 pm

    Thank you for these thoughts on letting God perfect us!

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  5. Susan says

    May 13, 2015 at 6:58 pm

    Kristin, one of my prayers when praying for people is, "Might information become revelation." Because THEN it changes people!!!

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  6. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:25 pm

    Ah, I love that and may be using that too! Thanks for sharing that here, Susan!

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  7. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:25 pm

    I gotta remind myself, you know? 🙂

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  8. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:26 pm

    Health is much improved here. These Kentucky allergies are messing with my head, but it's getting better. And Cate is back to herself too. Thanks for being here with kind words. Love you, friend.

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  9. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:27 pm

    I thought I might have strep too, but I don't. I just have a head full of congestion from Kentucky allergies. This happens every year. Ugh. And Cate is better, so that's good. Yeah, kids certainly help with lessons in letting go of control and expectations! 🙂 Nothing has been as sanctifying as motherhood has been for me!

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  10. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:28 pm

    So glad you could be encouraged, Karen! Thanks for your kind comment. xoxo

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  11. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    I'm glad you got some down time. Hope your people stay healthy – these allergies are crazy right now. This transformation message is one I need to remind myself of, so I'm glad you were encouraged too.

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  12. melody hester says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    I can really relate to this right now. God is refining me. I'm wanting to "get it" you know – like really come away with what he wants me to understand about him and about me in relation to him.

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  13. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    I totally get wanting to get it. That's where I am too, my friend.

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  14. Kim Adams Morgan says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:34 pm

    Transformation is what gets each one of us closer to Jesus. I think if the lessons He wants us to learn were easy, we wouldn't get as much out of them. I know this is true for me. He is the perfecter of my faith. Love your graphic, Kristin. Has me dreaming of the beach. Hope your daughter is feeling better.

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  15. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 13, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    You're right – we wouldn't hold onto the truth if it was easy to come by. That pictures in my graphic is from Castlepoint, New Zealand – such a beautiful place I got to visit in August 2009. It's what came to mind this week when I wanted a pretty image. 🙂 Glad you're here, Kim!

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  16. Tiffany says

    May 14, 2015 at 12:46 am

    I can so relate to that want to know what's up ahead and be able to prepare. But when I really think about it, that would mean missing out on the chance to lean into God and yes, be transformed by the minute to minute changes He orchestrates in our life. So blessed He isn't willing to leave us in the same spot! Hope your kiddos are on the mend and you are hanging in there. Hugs, friend. xo

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  17. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 14, 2015 at 12:31 pm

    I'm right there with you – seeing my natural tendencies and the blessings God gives when we lean in. We're feeling better around here, thankfully. So glad you're here, Tiffany!

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  18. Lisa notes... says

    May 14, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Love this, Kristin:
    "Transformation is greater than information." As one who loves information, I have to remind myself that not only do I not need to know everything, I'm better off learning to live with the unknown and the unexpected. It forces me to depend more on the Lord.

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  19. KristinHillTaylor says

    May 14, 2015 at 9:21 pm

    Amen. I'm right there with you learning (and appreciating!) that. Thanks for coming here, Lisa!

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