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It’s Adoption Awareness Month!

November 1, 2014 by Kristin Leave a Comment

November is National Adoption Awareness Month.

Obviously, we’re constantly aware of adoption around here. My kids both know they’re adopted, although one {I’m sure you can imagine which one …} talks about it more than the other. Not only is one child a girl and the other a boy, but their personalities are different. Cate is so aware of adoption that she likes to talk about it to whoever will listen.

I’ve shared about this before here and elaborate on it in my book. So, in honor, of National Adoption Awareness Month, I wanted to share the excerpt from “Peace in the Process: How Adoption Built My Faith & My Family” that illustrates perfectly Cate’s awareness of her own adoption:

The first-year teacher was discussing the life cycle of a mammal with a dozen first- and second-graders when she drew upon comparison to shield the bulk of the bird and the bees talk: “You know, like you were born from your mom.”

My daughter Cate decided to inform her class: “I wasn’t in my mom’s belly. I’m adopted.”
I’m sure she caught her 22-year-old teacher off guard. But that was that.

But the story said more to me. It made me thankful Cate recognizes her birth story is different than most of her friends yet she isn’t ashamed to share it. Being adopted is normal for her because we’ve talked about it since the day she was born. These are the conversations we have regularly, each time revealing more details about her birth mom, our time with this young woman who helped us have a family, and her birth we witnessed.

In 2013, Cate wanted to know more about the seven nights we spent in the hotel waiting for the interstate adoption paperwork to be approved by folks in Indianapolis and Frankfort, Ky. I showed her pictures of her birth mom for the first time on her 6th birthday. It was the sweetest, most revealing adoption conversation we had shared.

This topic is an ongoing dialogue around our house. The word “adoption” has long been in Cate’s vocabulary, but we gradually elaborated on the details of her story with her. From the time they were just days old, strangers have told us how much Cate looks like me or Ben resembles my husband’s family. Sometimes we grin and nod. Other times we let them in on this story of ours.

My husband and I are raising a girl who remembers details and isn’t afraid to tell the truth along with a boy who embraces life to its fullest. We’re bringing up two of the best things God has ever done for us. Adoption is the story of how we became a family. It’s one I will tell over and over as long as someone listens. And now I’m glad to know my girl will tell it, too.

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May you embrace the adoption stories near you, and not just this month but always. May you find ways to serve orphans. And may you know like these earthly adoption stories our heavenly Father adopts us and chooses us to be part of his forever family.

In honor of this month all there is to celebrate, I’m giving away a copy of Jennifer Jackson Linck’s “Bringing Home the Missing Linck: A Journey of Faith to Family.” Yes, it her family’s adoption story, but it’s also packed with lessons of trusting God and believing him even among life’s detours.

And because I adore Jennifer’s heart and love how she tells real-life stories, I’m also giving away a copy of her ebook, “Trucks, Tantrums & Trusting Him: Confessions of a Boy Mom.” But, don’t worry girl moms, you’ll take plenty away from this one too. In reading Jennifer’s words you’ll remember how God’s glory really can shine among the ordinary moments of our lives.

So there will be two winners chosen randomly on Wednesday, Nov. 5 – one will win a hard copy of “Bringing Home the Missing Linck” and the other will win a PDF copy of “Trucks, Tantrums & Trusting Him.” Just use the Rafflecopter below for multiple entries.

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I talk about adoption often around here, especially with the recent release of my ebook. A year ago, I spent the month publishing an adoption series with pieces of our story as well as guest posts from others. You can see all those posts here.

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  1. Mary J says

    November 1, 2014 at 12:21 pm

    I (obviously) love adoption and am very thankful how God made me a mom through adoption (once and soon to be twice next year!). Hearing and reading about the way you put into words how adoption has molded your family and what God has done never gets old to me.

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  2. KristinHillTaylor says

    November 1, 2014 at 12:23 pm

    There are the obvious effects of adoption in my life – kids, motherhood, strengthened faith, but there are also other effects that are so precious to me, including how God created our friendship in conversations about infertility and adoption. You're such a blessing to me, Mary.

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  3. Mary J says

    November 1, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    I feel the same about you! 2 WEEKS!!!!!

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  4. MaddyChristine Hope Brokopp says

    November 4, 2014 at 3:22 pm

    I LOVE that it is Adoption month. I have the desire that one day we will pay attention to that in our church. We are currently in the process of adoption an older child… what a journey. It is great I have connected with others in our church now, we are actually fiding a lot of people being in the same boat as we are and that is so helpful.

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  5. KristinHillTaylor says

    November 4, 2014 at 3:25 pm

    Adoption has so many encouraging parallels to how God treats us. I've loved exploring that since adoption has become such a big part of our family's story. I'm hoping you witness God's glory on your adoption journey. Thanks for coming by here and sharing a piece of your story.

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