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I will remember

January 8, 2014 by Kristin Leave a Comment

We’re a week in, and I still have a hard time believing it’s a new year. Christmas has past. We’re in the midst of a colder-than-usual winter here in Kentucky. And yet somehow I’ve remembered to change the 13 to a 14 when I date checks and papers and plans.

But before this month, and this year, really, start to get away from me, I have something I want to tell you. You, the family who are friends and friends who are family. You, the friends I’ve known long before I became a wife then momma. You, the friends I gained because us mommas need each other. You, the online friends who have become real friends. You, the friends I’ve yet to meet in person but still matter in my real life.

I want to tell you to remember. 

Remember where you are and who you’re with. Remember that people matter.

Remember why you made the choices you did. Remember that we need to move forward but that there is always grace. 

Remember why your calendar looks the way it does. Remember to live intentionally. 

Remember the traditions you want to hold on to and the dreams you want to chase. Remember that yours won’t look like anyone else’s. 

Remember this moment right here, right now won’t last for long. Remember that seasons matter. 

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So, now, in taking some of my own advice, I want to remember Christmas before it escapes me and becomes covered with tomorrow’s memories.

We spread out the Christmas gatherings, starting with Greg’s siblings while we were in Branson for Thanksgiving. Even so, we were blessed with packed days in a few different locations over Christmas break celebrating with so many people we love.

First up was hanging out with some of my family and childhood friends in Louisville.

I want to remember the way Bekah and Katie I pick up right where we left off. For the second time this year, we gathered ourselves and our families together. I want to remember how refreshing for my soul this time is, even when life sometimes try to interrupt and complicate plans.

I want to remember how my kids adore their cousins. I want to remember how this Christmas was different but how it was simple and good.

I want to remember how I’m proud of my little brother who my son adores.

I want to remember how Jaclyn and I both yearned for a family. We didn’t have babies in our own scripted time, but God gave us five in five years together. They don’t know life without each other, and I’ll always remember to line them up and snap a picture. I want to remember that like people who share a last name, our two families have traditions that are an important part of my life.

I want to remember how on Christmas Eve is a sweet, simple time for our family of four. I wanted to serve a meal at a soup kitchen, but kids weren’t allowed at the one that was open. Perhaps next year I need to remember to plan something not on the actual holiday. I want to remember how we took our next-door neighbor grandparents out to dinner. I want to remember how the kids were excited for the holiday, like the eve was a holiday all its own.

I want to remember Christmas morning here at home. Just us. We read the Christmas story. We exchanged a few gifts and ate pancakes. We were us. And I want to remember how Greg surprised me with a brand new Kindle. If you know us, you know it’s a miracle we waited until Christmas morning to give each other gifts and keeping one a true surprise was meaningful to me. 

I want to remember how we gathered with so many other Taylors for lunch at one house and then gifts and dessert at another. Traditions are changing, but I want to remember what matters is the people.

I want to remember the anticipation I had about meeting my new nephew. I have other niece and nephews, but, admittedly, there is something special about when your own sister finally gets to be a momma after some difficulty getting there. I understand where she’s been and am so happy for her to be where she is.

I want to remember how 4-year-old Ben didn’t sleep until the last 53 miles of a 619-mile trip from Kentucky to Texas. I want to remember the bittersweet surprise of traveling with two kids who don’t necessarily require naps. But I want to remember that vacation can be exhausting and naps for both kids happened another day while riding in the mini van.

I want to remember how excited the kids were to hold Baby Lochlan.

I want to remember all the good food we ate. Texas sure does know how to season and serve shrimp tacos and brisket tacos.

I want to remember how my favorite day was the one where Mom and I cooked for Cassie and then we played Catan Junior, Wits and Wagers, Spades and Hearts around the table.

I want to remember that location doesn’t define friendships and how my husband didn’t think I was crazy for wanting to drive 98 miles to hang out with a family we’d never met in person.

I want to remember these days from Christmas Break. Throughout this new year, I want to remember to remember so all the coming days don’t escape me. 

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I’m linking this post with Holley Gerth’s new weekly series called Coffee for Your Heart, which gives us people a chance to use words to love on one another. Come join us. I’m also joining Beth Stiff for Three Word Wednesday. 

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Comments

  1. Mel says

    January 8, 2014 at 2:33 pm

    I smiled through all of this…you have some amazing memories from the past year. Thank you for the encouragement today…remember. Yes. 🙂 Have a wonderful day, friend!

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  2. Sarah Knepper says

    January 8, 2014 at 3:09 pm

    What a great way to still reflect on 2013. You have beautiful moments and this is such a wonderful reminder of those times. Blessings to you Kristin!

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  3. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 8, 2014 at 3:50 pm

    Thank you for your sweet words! Enjoy your day – is it a pajama day for you and Mae? 🙂

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  4. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 8, 2014 at 3:50 pm

    Thanks, Sarah! Hope your 2014 is blessed.

    Reply
  5. Amy says

    January 8, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Hello, fellow Kentucky Blogger! Were you meaning Murray, Ky? My husband pastors a church just a few minutes from Murray!

    I love the reminder to remember. Some times I get so hung up in the rush, that I miss the details that I want to remember. Thanks for this post, found you on Holley Gerth's link up 🙂

    Reply
  6. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 8, 2014 at 6:51 pm

    Hi, Amy! I live in Murray, Ky.! Where does he pastor? Where do you all live? I'm heading over to your blog. 🙂 So glad you came by.

    Reply
  7. Mel says

    January 8, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    It's kind of been a pj week for us with the cold. Other than to get the mail or let the dogs out, I haven't left the house since Saturday. Yikes! But she goes back to PK tomorrow…and that's a good thing. 🙂

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  8. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 8, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    I can relate. I've been out a little, but not as much as usual. It's kind of been nice to hunker down at home, especially after traveling so much over Christmas Break.

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  9. Amy says

    January 9, 2014 at 3:42 am

    He pastors at Olive Baptist, between Benton and Hardin, but we live in the Symsonia area. We've only been serving at Olive for a few months and really love it there.

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  10. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 9, 2014 at 4:01 am

    How fun! We live right in Murray but my kids go to New Covenant Christian Academy in Hardin.

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  11. Beth says

    January 9, 2014 at 1:21 pm

    This sealed the deal! I've been pondering writing a post to summarize my top moments from 2013. I usually include them in the New Year card I send out (instead of Christmas card to give myself a bit more time) but I'm struggling with getting the card out. With my husband gone, well…it's just hard. However, I miss taking a moment to share how events, people, time with family, and so on touched my heart this past year. I want to remember them. So..expect a post soon. Thanks for the inspiration. You are AWESOME!

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  12. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 9, 2014 at 1:28 pm

    I'm looking forward to that post and am glad I encouraged you. For whatever reason I was struggling to recap Christmas but knew I wanted to. I think it seemed like so much at once. Finally inspiration came. Always love seeing you here!

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  13. Beatriz Magana says

    January 10, 2014 at 11:06 pm

    Kristin,
    Making good memories for our families is so important. They help us remember who we were and where we come from, so that we may begin memories all of our own, regardless of what kind of traditions we want to keep or begin. Thank you for reminding us to remember!

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  14. KristinHillTaylor says

    January 12, 2014 at 9:01 pm

    Hi, Beatriz! Thanks for stopping by. Hope your new year is off to a good start!

    Reply

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