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{Out of the Blue} From shyness to confidence

April 4, 2013 by Kristin Leave a Comment

14 months old in 1980

When I was a kid, my shy personality prompted me to play a hide-and-seek game, ducking in the next aisle, when I saw someone I knew. It’s not because I didn’t like them, but I worried that they wouldn’t recognize me or notice me and I’d have to strike up a conversation.

My mom will tell you stories about me hanging onto her leg – literally – like I thought she could shield me from the world. There were these grocery store incidents and the days I didn’t want to walk out onto the gymnastic mat by myself.

{Why I thought pursuing gymnastics was a good idea remains a mystery. I’m not exactly small, thanks to half my genes coming from a former football lineman. But, hey, Mom was a good sport this way.}

I don’t really know when I grew out of the shyness. It was a process that happened as I found my voice in writing in high school and college. Regardless, I’m thankful I don’t usually want to cling to my mom’s leg now that I’m a grown-up girl with kids of my own.

Even so, the people who knew me when haven’t forgotten.

In 2007, my central Kentucky friends threw me {and my newborn adopted daughter Cate} a shower. My friends and family took turns sharing a memory. Yes, this kind of thing still makes me nervous. Maybe that’s just the shyness slipping back into existence.

When it was my mom’s turn at this baby shower when I was 28 year old, she reminisced about my shy days. I think she still likes to talk about it, but that’s OK because she always gets around to how I’ve grown up and grown out of that tendency: “Kristin was so shy as a kid. She didn’t speak to people and hung on my leg. But then she grew up and become a journalist. Can you believe it? She calls people who don’t want to talk to her.”

Indeed I’m not shy anymore. At least not like that little-girl shy. You still won’t find me in front of a big crowd speaking into a microphone. And while I’m raising a girl who is so much like me, I’m thankful she’s not shy. She’s the kid that talks to strangers when we grocery shop and has to be reminded to tell me good-bye before she gets out of the car at school.

The morale of the story is sometimes people will surprise you. My mom finds joy in me gaining enough confidence to move beyond her leg and be the reporter on the other end of the interview. Clearly I found something better to do with my life than become a gymnast.

So journalist-turned-momma it is.

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I’m linking up with Kristen’s “Out of the Blue” series about surprises at Chasing Blue Skies. Read about other surprises in my life here. Want more? Subscribe to get “Insights” in your inbox. Like 152 Insights on Facebook. Or follow me on Twitter and Instagram.

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  1. Mel says

    April 4, 2013 at 5:32 pm

    I really connected with this…I was that girl, too. I was shy all the way to college, and then I slowly found my voice. (And now I can't seem to stop talking…lots of years to make up for, I guess! HA!) I still don't love speaking to a large crowd, but there have been times when I've had to, and He always gives the grace for it. Isn't it amazing what God can do? So thankful for your voice and for your encouragement! Many blessings on your day, friend! 🙂

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  2. Kristen says

    April 4, 2013 at 7:56 pm

    I adore this, Kristin. You remind me how God sometimes takes an extreme personality trait and turns it into a beautiful attribute. Bravo, friend!

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  3. Beth says

    April 5, 2013 at 1:55 am

    This made me smile Kristin. I too was that shy girl so I could connect with your words. And actually wanted to be a gymnast too. hehe. That did not happen! Its a blessing to connect with you through Kristen.

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  4. KristinHillTaylor says

    April 5, 2013 at 12:36 pm

    Thank you, Kristen! Your link-up has been really good for me and I love reading other people's stories of surprises.

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  5. KristinHillTaylor says

    April 5, 2013 at 12:36 pm

    Thanks, Beth!

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  6. KristinHillTaylor says

    April 5, 2013 at 12:37 pm

    God is good not to leave us the same. Thanks for your encouragement, as always, friend.

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