We had talked on the phone, but watching Cate’s birth mom walk into the doctor’s office waiting room was surreal. She was carrying our daughter inside her and she was thankful her daughter was going to have a family. And from that moment on, God lined up detail after detail to create our family.
Not only did we meet Cate’s birth mom that day, but we also saw our daughter via ultrasound. We named her Catherine Anna, officially, on the drive home from Bloomington, Indiana.
I later learned that Catherine is also the birth mom’s middle name. See, God was showing his faithfulness in all the details. This was His plan. This was meant to be.
I tried to soak in the details of this woman who made a brave, selfless decision. I liked talking to her during our lunches that would following pre-natal doctor’s appointments over the next 15 weeks.
She’s 5-foot-10 with a very sweet face. She’s big-boned and beautiful. Her dark hair is mostly straight but seems to want to flip just a bit as it grows back. She likes pink, just look at her tennis shoes.
Growing up in a Midwest family, she’s the youngest of three. She loves sports and plays card. Even though Christmas is her favorite holiday, she chooses to be outside in warm weather. She likes pizza, chocolate and root beer.
She could raise the baby growing inside, and truly I have no doubt she’s be a fine mother. But she’s 19. She thinks about going to medical school, or at least pursuing a career in the medical field. An occupational therapist, perhaps. Somehow she’ll end up helping people. Maybe that’s why she battled and survived Hodgkins disease. She wears a yellow Livestrong bracelet.
I only hope our baby has part of her determined spirit and positive attitude. And then I can say it’s in the genes.
This is the first in a five-part series about how various events in January changed my life.